Raising a Child

Racism and sexism are hard to talk about, but if you want to end a friendship, your best chance is to differ on child-rearing principles. 

The most truthful comment I can make is that no matter which system you follow, there will be bad consequences. 

In a recent article (THE NEW YORKER, Jan 29, 2018) Adam Gopnik quoted Alexander Herzen: “Because children grow up, we think a child’s purpose is to grow up. But a child’s purpose is to be a child.“  One part of life (the early years ) is not inferior to other parts or preparation for other parts. It’s there to be lived a day at a time. Make them good years, a day at a time. Also do a little preparation. 

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